by Rob Eames | Apr 13, 2022 | Coaching
Solid Gold Options To Create Intimacy I get asked all the time by my coaching clients: “In my relationship, what do I do when I don’t know what to do?” They continue … “I want to feel connected to my partner but I don’t...
by Rob Eames | Mar 16, 2022 | Coaching
Healthy Responses to Criticism and Blame Are there times in your romantic relationship when you feel that you are on the receiving end of criticism, blame, and judgment from your partner? Added to that criticism, maybe your partner delivers it with what feels to you...
by Rob Eames | May 13, 2021 | Coaching
Pausing in the Heat of the Moment Pausing sounds wonderful … in a perfect world, when I am my best self, and when the issue at hand is not a big deal. How about all those other times in romantic relationships when things are messy, when I am upset, and when the...
by Rob Eames | May 1, 2021 | Coaching
The Power of the Pause “Between every stimulus and response, there is a space.” – Vicktor Frankl When I am asked if I only had time to offer one thing to a couple to support them in making an immediate positive difference in their relationship, you may or may...
by Rob Eames | Apr 14, 2021 | Coaching
7 Supports to Embrace Positive Relationship Changes Have you and your partner worked together to make intentional changes to your ways of relating? If so, how did it go? Maybe an example or two will help make this topic concrete: “Honey, would you be willing to...
by Rob Eames | Mar 28, 2021 | Coaching
6 Steps For When Irritation or Annoyance Arises In my relationship coaching practice, I notice a recurring obvious pattern: Partners hurt each other when they are upset. This pattern is tragic for so many reasons. First, I see again and again the more kind...