Your romantic relationship has a profound impact on the quality of your life.  Your romantic partner contributes to your fundamental relational needs

• to matter,
• to be understood,
• to be heard, for support,
• to trust, and
• for affection. 

I support individuals and couples to co-create fulfilling romantic relationships that consistently and reliably contribute to these needs.

What to Expect

Some ways to get to know more about me and to decide whether it may be a good fit to work together include:

• Schedule a free initial consultation – you can gain experience with what it is like to work with me
• Attend a workshop
• Watch free resources
• Read articles I have written

Whom do I Serve

I focus on relationships.  That work takes many forms, such as:

• Couples in crisis – I work with couples in crisis to unravel & repair years of resentment, mistrust, and hurt.
• Couples who are comfortable in their relationship – I work with couples who need support to unlock the potential in their relationship for greater intimacy, connection, understanding, and growth.
• Individuals in relationship – If your partner is not available or not interested at this time, I work with you individually.  When you show up differently, key dynamics in your relationship will shift. No matter the direction of your current relationship, the skills we will practice together will serve you well for the rest of your life.
• Individuals after a breakup – Breakups can be painful.  After a breakup, I support you in grieving the loss of the relationship, clarifying what’s important to you in future relationships, and learning from the patterns in your previous relationships (including this most recent one).  We work together so you have much more clarity about what you want and are much more prepared to co-create mutually-satisfying relationships.
• Couples at the start of a long term committed relationship – A great place to start is … at the beginning.  For couples just starting out, I offer pre-marital coaching.  Pre-marital coaching focuses on exploring the typical arc of a long term relationship, viewing your relationship through the lens of mutual relational needs, and practicing the skills to work together as a strong team, to support each other, and to prevent disconnection & resentment.
• Couples who have decided to uncouple – I work with couples who have decided to end their romantic relationship with as much mutuality, kindness, and care as possible.